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Interpersonal Relationship
An interpersonal relationship is a reciprocal connection between two or more people in which they communicate, share feelings, influence one another, and work towards personal or common goals. It may occur between family members, friends, colleagues, teachers and students, or between a nurse and patient.
Healthy relationships help meet needs for affection, belonging, care, security, cooperation, purpose, and emotional support. They are guided by verbal and non-verbal signals, and their acceptable patterns differ according to the people involved, family, and culture. Disturbed relationship patterns can cause distress and impaired social functioning. Kaplan & Sadock's Comprehensive Textbook of Psychiatry, p. 3616.
Characteristics of a healthy interpersonal relationship
- Mutual respect - each person values the dignity, rights, opinions, and individuality of the other.
- Trust - confidence that the other person is honest, reliable, and maintains confidentiality.
- Effective communication - clear expression of thoughts and feelings, with active listening and feedback.
- Empathy - understanding another person's feelings from their point of view without unnecessary judgement.
- Acceptance - accepting the person as an individual, including differences in culture, beliefs, and behaviour.
- Cooperation - working together to solve problems and achieve common goals.
- Appropriate boundaries - maintaining limits that protect privacy, safety, and professional roles.
- Emotional support - providing encouragement, comfort, reassurance, and a sense of belonging.
- Honesty and openness - sharing relevant information truthfully and respectfully.
- Reciprocity - both persons participate and contribute to the relationship, although the degree may differ in professional relationships.
Types of interpersonal relationships
- Family relationships: Parent-child, siblings, spouses, and extended family.
- Friendship relationships: Based on affection, companionship, common interests, and support.
- Work or social relationships: Relationships with classmates, colleagues, teachers, neighbours, and community members.
- Professional or therapeutic relationships: Goal-oriented relationships, such as nurse-patient, doctor-patient, or counsellor-client relationships.
Nurse-patient therapeutic relationship
A therapeutic nurse-patient relationship is a planned, purposeful, professional relationship in which the nurse uses communication skills to assist the patient in meeting health needs, coping with stress, and becoming more independent. It differs from a social relationship because the focus is always on the patient’s welfare, not on fulfilling the nurse’s personal needs. The NCBI nursing guidance describes it as a relationship built on trust and rapport that enables communication and patient participation in care.
Principles
- Maintain respect, privacy, confidentiality, and professional boundaries.
- Show empathy, genuineness, acceptance, and non-judgmental attitude.
- Use simple language appropriate to the patient’s level of understanding.
- Encourage the patient to express feelings, fears, and doubts.
- Respect cultural, religious, and individual differences.
- Avoid criticism, false reassurance, excessive self-disclosure, and dependency.
- Maintain consistency and reliability.
Phases of nurse-patient relationship - Peplau’s model
| Phase | Main activities |
|---|---|
| 1. Pre-interaction phase | Nurse prepares before meeting the patient. Reviews available information, identifies own feelings or biases, plans the approach, and ensures a suitable environment. |
| 2. Orientation phase | Nurse and patient meet, introduce themselves, establish rapport, explain roles and purpose, identify problems, set goals, and clarify confidentiality and boundaries. |
| 3. Working phase | The major therapeutic work occurs. The patient discusses feelings and problems; the nurse uses active listening, clarification, reflection, teaching, support, and problem-solving. Patient participation and independence are encouraged. |
| 4. Termination phase | The relationship ends when goals are achieved or care is transferred. Progress is reviewed, feelings about separation are discussed, future plans are made, and referral or follow-up is arranged if needed. |
Communication techniques that promote the relationship
- Active listening
- Open-ended questions
- Silence
- Reflection
- Clarification
- Restating
- Focusing
- Summarising
- Giving information
- Encouraging expression of feelings
Barriers to interpersonal relationships
- Poor listening and unclear communication
- Lack of trust or respect
- Cultural and language differences
- Prejudice, judgement, or stigma
- Anger, anxiety, fear, or low self-esteem
- Breach of confidentiality
- Role confusion and poor professional boundaries
- Excessive dependence or emotional involvement
Conclusion
Interpersonal relationships are essential for emotional wellbeing, social adjustment, and effective nursing care. In nursing, a therapeutic relationship based on trust, empathy, communication, respect, and professional boundaries helps patients express needs, participate in treatment, and achieve better health outcomes.
Recent-evidence note: Recent meta-analyses associate interpersonal distress and interpersonal problems with poorer mental-health outcomes, especially depression and anxiety, though this does not prove that relationship problems alone cause these conditions. Relevant reviews include PMIDs 40825540 and 40759884.
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