This presentation is consistent with premature ejaculation (PE), but do not issue a full patient-specific prescription without confirming the diagnosis, duration, distress, erectile function, medicines, psychiatric history, cardiac history, and substance use.
PE is diagnosed when there is persistently reduced control over ejaculation with distress or relationship difficulty. Assess both partners' concerns rather than framing the goal solely as meeting the wife's desire.
Before prescribing
Document:
- Lifelong versus acquired PE, approximate intravaginal ejaculation latency time, perceived control, and distress
- Erectile dysfunction, low libido, genital pain, prostatitis symptoms, thyroid symptoms
- Anxiety, depression, relationship conflict, alcohol or recreational-drug use
- Current medications, especially antidepressants, tramadol, MAO inhibitors, PDE5 inhibitors, and CYP3A4 inhibitors
- Syncope, significant cardiac disease, arrhythmia, orthostatic hypotension, liver disease
- Blood pressure and pulse. Perform focused genital examination only if indicated.
If PE is acquired, treat the associated cause first, such as erectile dysfunction, prostatitis, hyperthyroidism, anxiety, or relationship issues. Guidelines recommend sexual history, assessment of anxiety/interpersonal factors, and partner involvement where feasible.
EAU guidance
Example outpatient prescription template
Use only after clinical assessment and after checking local approval/availability.
Diagnosis: Premature ejaculation, lifelong/acquired, with clinically significant distress
Date: ___
Rx
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Dapoxetine 30 mg tablet
- Take 1 tablet orally 1-3 hours before anticipated intercourse, with a full glass of water.
- Maximum: one dose in 24 hours.
- Review after 4 weeks or after 6 doses.
- If there is inadequate benefit and it is tolerated, a clinician may consider 60 mg on demand, subject to local product labeling and reassessment.
- Dispense: 6-12 tablets. No automatic refill.
Counsel: nausea, dizziness, headache, diarrhea, dry mouth, and possible fainting can occur. Avoid alcohol, driving, heights, or hazardous tasks after dosing, particularly until individual response is known. Rise slowly from sitting/lying positions.
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Behavioral and couple-based treatment
- Start-stop method or squeeze technique, sensate-focus exercises, slower stimulation, and pelvic-floor relaxation/training.
- Encourage joint counseling/sex therapy if relationship anxiety, performance anxiety, or communication difficulty is present.
- Review in 4-6 weeks.
Combination behavioral treatment plus medication often improves control and satisfaction more than medication alone.
AUA/SMSNA guideline
Do not prescribe dapoxetine if
- Taking another SSRI/SNRI, MAOI, linezolid, tramadol, St John's wort, or serotonergic recreational drugs, due to serotonin-toxicity risk
- History of mania/hypomania, severe depression with suicidality, or significant psychiatric instability
- History of syncope, significant structural heart disease, clinically important arrhythmia, or marked orthostatic hypotension
- Moderate or severe hepatic impairment
- Concurrent potent CYP3A4 inhibitors, depending on local labeling
- Heavy alcohol use or inability to avoid alcohol around dosing
Dapoxetine is an on-demand short-acting SSRI. It is approved in many countries but is
not FDA-approved in the United States.
EAU pharmacotherapy section
If dapoxetine is unavailable or contraindicated
A reasonable alternative is:
Lidocaine/prilocaine topical anesthetic
- Apply a small amount to the glans penis about 10-20 minutes before intercourse, then wash it off or use a condom before penetration to avoid penile over-numbness and transfer of anesthetic to the partner.
- Stop if either partner develops numbness, burning, rash, or reduced pleasure.
Other options, such as daily paroxetine, sertraline, fluoxetine, or clomipramine, are generally
off-label for PE and require a fuller psychiatric, interaction, and adverse-effect review. Do not use sildenafil/tadalafil solely for PE unless erectile dysfunction is also present. The AUA lists daily SSRIs, on-demand dapoxetine or clomipramine, and topical anesthetics as first-line drug options.
AUA recommendation
Avoid prescribing tramadol routinely. It has dependence, sedation, seizure, and serotonin-toxicity risks and is generally reserved for selected refractory cases by an experienced clinician.
The urology text similarly describes on-demand dapoxetine and topical agents, with behavioral and psychosexual approaches in management. Campbell-Walsh-Wein Urology, p. 2083.