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My friemd joke me at girls on my body shing what i do

It sounds like your friend is making jokes or teasing you about stretch marks (or similar marks) on your body. That can feel embarrassing or hurtful, but it's very common and nothing to be ashamed of.
Here's what you can do:
1. Talk to your friend
  • Calmly tell them the jokes make you uncomfortable. A good friend will stop once they know it bothers you.
  • Say something like: "Hey, those jokes hurt my feelings. Please stop."
2. Remember - stretch marks and body marks are normal
  • Almost everyone has them - both men and women.
  • They are caused by growth, weight changes, or just genetics. They are not a flaw.
3. Build your confidence
  • Don't let one person's joke define how you feel about your body.
  • Your worth is not about how your skin looks.
4. If the teasing keeps happening
  • Set a firm boundary: "I've asked you to stop. If you keep doing this, I'll need some distance from you."
  • Spend more time with people who respect and support you.
5. If it truly bothers you (the marks themselves)
  • Moisturizing regularly (cocoa butter, vitamin E oil) can help reduce the appearance over time.
  • A doctor or dermatologist can also give advice if you want professional options.
You deserve friends who lift you up, not put you down. Stay confident - your body is yours and it's just fine.

I think i quite my fiemship

That's a big decision, and it's okay to feel that way. Here's some honest advice:
Before you quit the friendship, ask yourself:
  • Has this friend joked about you more than once?
  • Did they keep going even after you looked uncomfortable?
  • Do they only make you feel bad, or do they also support you sometimes?
If the answer is mostly yes - the friendship may be toxic.
Signs of a bad friend:
  • They embarrass you in front of others
  • They don't respect your feelings
  • They make you feel small or insecure
In that case, stepping away is healthy and brave.
If it was a one-time thing:
  • Consider giving them one honest conversation first.
  • Tell them directly how it made you feel.
  • See how they respond - a true friend will apologize and change.
Remember:
A real friend builds you up. They don't use your insecurities as punchlines.
You don't owe anyone friendship if it constantly hurts you. Your peace of mind matters more than keeping someone around who disrespects you.
Whatever you decide - trust yourself. You know this person better than anyone. 💙
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